I think I stumbled upon this site through a blogroll on another asian site. BetterAsianMan.com is about providing information for the Asian-American male on how to be confident and successful with women. In other words, picking up girls they could only imagine. Ladies, before you get judgmental, hear me out. Yes, the main “goal” of [...]
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Filial Piety Still Kept Among Chinese Americans?
William Lee has written a great article on AARP discussing about the Chinese tradition of the extended family model and how Chinese Americans are following the nuclear model like most Americans. William believes the reason is that:
A) It allows more freedom.
B) It allows more individuality.
C) Is how most families are.
By going with the nuclear family [...]
Identity Issues: Not Knowing Your So-Called Native Tongue
An article written by akrypti on 8asians.com sparked my interest on writing about a somewhat related topic which I’ve always been meaning to get to…Do you ever feel a bit embarrassed not knowing how to speak the language of your parents/grandparents/ancestors/etc.?
Me, not knowing how to speak Chinese (Mandarin/Cantonese), I often find myself out of place [...]
Math and Science Not the Choice for Asian-Americans?
According to a recent study by the College Board and New York University, they think so. Math and Science apparently are no longer the “main domain” for Asian Americans. The College Board and New York University had this to say:
The report found that contrary to stereotype, most of the bachelor’s degrees that Asian-Americans [...]
We’re Not All Chinese, Nor Play Jokes, Nor Go Pee Pee In Your Cokes
For a while, I’ve noticed this. A situation occurs where your ethnicity is mentioned, and it feels like most of the time, non-Asians automatically assume you’re chinese. Two things can be basically going on in your mind:
1) You are Chinese and are like “Wow, you have a sixth sense of Asianness!”
2) You aren’t Chinese and [...]
How Asian Are You? Do You Have The Aura?
So I was talking with my sister a while ago and she brought up something I found quite amusing. Apparently she said something along the lines of her not being Asian enough, and she doesn’t have the “aura”…On the other hand, apparently she said I do, lol. Weird thing is though, I hardly know any [...]
The Asian Glow:How Does it Affect You?
If you are Asian, chances are when you are having an alcoholic beverage, your face or whole body starts to turn red (This happens mostly to just Asians and not Pacific Islanders from what I understand). This what people refer to as the “Asian Glow”. When this happens, “those that don’t know” consider that [...]
My Visit to the Chinese Buffet: Things I Should Mention
It’s been a few weeks since I last frequented a Chinese buffet, but it’s always pretty much the same no matter where and when you go. I will jot down some of the common observances that I have found which mostly applies to all Chinese buffets universally. I took some pictures on my cellphone while [...]
Dating Out of Race Makes You a Racist?
I get this one question a lot: Would you date out of race?
In all honesty, I find this question to be a bit silly. Not just the fact that why does it really matter if someone decides to date out of race, and why is it any of your business to begin with, but the [...]
YouTubIng
So I was just thinking when I was on my youtube page [which are called "channels"], I was reviewing all the things I’ve watched, saved as favorites, and reviewing my playlist. I looked at my avatar and noticed my background. After all that, I was like.. “OMG, hey its like another one of them pages [...]